blaqueindigo asked:
To progress for the future, we must first know the mistakes of out past. No mistakes equal no change.
Aaron
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December 29th, 2008 at 10:06 pm
Just because you decided to open your legs at age 13 does not mean that everyone else in this world need to be blamed for your damn problems. You have many issues that you need to take up with YOUR MOTHER! This dont have shit to do with being a single parent you were FRESH and ignorant people make mistakes I understand that but stop trying to blame everyone else because you FUCKED UP! Get over yourself.
December 29th, 2008 at 11:44 pm
single moms are too weak. Back in the day a boy out of control would be asked by a person,”who is your father and where is he at?” The boy would get frightened and straightened up. Now when there is no father and you ask him, he does not know or he is in jail. That boy is not afraid of his mother and will continue the malevolent behavior. THAT is the truth
January 2nd, 2009 at 11:10 am
I hate it also when parents look at us as Devils. They do need to apologize for their mistakes. No one is perfect but we need to take responsibility for our actions. We also can’t raise a stable child with only one person we need both men and women.
January 2nd, 2009 at 5:06 pm
I’m not religious so the basis for your argument is immediately debunked in my point of view. As a woman my place is not under a man but beside a man with both of us loving and encouraging each other. No domination or submission but an equally beneficial union. Yay! From a differing point of view peace~
January 5th, 2009 at 7:42 am
You really should get over yourself your mom did everything she was suppose to do. The day you disagreed with how she raised you was the day you should have taken responsibility for your self. God Bless your mother for being your mother. God gave her the womb to birth you. There is no higher position in this world than that of the mother. RESPECT!
January 7th, 2009 at 1:27 am
James 3:15 This wisdom is not descendeth from above, but is earthly, sensual and devilish.
2 Corinthans 6:17-18 Therefore come out from among them and be separate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean; and I will receive you
And I will be a father to you, and you shall be Sons and Daughters to Me, saith the LORD ALMIGHTY
We are spiritual beings having a human experience. None of us would have come into existence without God the creator.
January 9th, 2009 at 8:25 pm
I disagree with the part where u say a woman cannot control her mouth because of a lack of a father. Are you saying that single moms are too weak to control their kids?
January 12th, 2009 at 10:03 am
my parents were divorced but i grew up with both my parents and they were always good friends. but i guess thats shared parenting. good video!
January 14th, 2009 at 2:10 pm
Get momma! For those who don’t know umm yeah Israel wake up!
January 17th, 2009 at 6:13 pm
1:29-1:35 i relate to so much i also felt uncomfortable and still to this day in households with men, because i never grew up with one
January 20th, 2009 at 3:53 pm
i lost my virginity at the same age as U did…I had both my parents in the home. They were both hardworking and pretty decent. My dad checked me more than my mom. I made my mistakes on my own…and learned from them. Nobody or family is perfect. You really need to have ur own kids b4 U try to reach out to tell someone how they should raise theirs. K-Great:-)
January 23rd, 2009 at 7:43 am
Media, TV for that matter, is a major influence to kids nowadays. Not just to those of single-parent households. In the book by Carolyn Ellis, The 7 Pitfalls of Single Parenting, she mentions that one of the pitfalls is not prioritizing the children. In your case, I see that you have been delegated to the TV. I hope, by now that you are older, you have learned to value those things which matter to you most (despite the seemingly “abnormal” family situation. God bless
January 26th, 2009 at 3:14 pm
A womens place is under her husband??? Are you serious??!! Wow…
January 27th, 2009 at 7:07 pm
So are you basicly saying that Single Parent Familys are like bad ..?
I’m from a single parent family ..
I Love My Life!
January 28th, 2009 at 7:29 pm
jajajajaja Y
January 29th, 2009 at 9:44 am
MAYNE…!!!!!! You said what I’ve been saying for years
February 1st, 2009 at 7:37 pm
OOOHHHHHHH…That’s what’s I’m talking about damn !
February 3rd, 2009 at 10:36 am
anyone want to chat? i am bored and just got my new computer! it has a webcam!!! k
February 4th, 2009 at 9:07 am
everthing you said was like U were talking about me. I feel U 100%. CAN u ANSWER ME THIS, JUST BECAUSE MOM & DAD RELATINSHIP DIDNT WORK OUT WHY DOES THE RELATIONSHIP W/ THE KIDS NOT WORK OUT? WHY SHOULD YOUR ANGER TOWARDS YOUR HUSBAND/BABY’S FATHER b ACTED OUT ON INNOCENT CHILDREN? wITHOUT BLK WOMEN & MEN GETTING THIS THING TOGETHER WHAT WILL HAPPEN 2 OUR CHILDREN? What will happen 2 US?
PEACE
Yaa
February 7th, 2009 at 8:42 am
but we dont. My mother is an amazing mother..seriously. She is there for me 100% and everyone can tell. BUT my dad is in another state with his wife and children. I need a male role in my life. I too lost my virginity at 14 and into alot of stuff I shouldnt be. I still would been a teen and make mistakes but if I had a dad I would have made better choices and had a balance in my life. They say a girl goes for a guy like her dad….but most ppl dont have fathers so…what does that tell you?
February 7th, 2009 at 4:48 pm
I SOO AGREE WITH YOU!!!
I am 17 yr’s old.
MOST OF MY FRIENDZ DO NOT HAVE FATHERS
but one of my bestfriends does, and its so odd to me and most of our friends that she has a dad but I think its cool.
I dont know what that feels like and lets face it most of us dont and its wrong
I dont know what a real man is or suppose to be because I have never seen one in my home and I think thats why we have so many problems with men, teenage pregnancy and so on. We need that duality, male & female. period.
February 8th, 2009 at 2:38 pm
On that note, let me go home to my 15 yr old. I was working late but it is time to go.
Thank you
February 8th, 2009 at 7:34 pm
ur black lollollollollollollollollolz
February 12th, 2009 at 5:47 am
Wow…I stumbled upon your blog by pure search and WOW.
I too was raised by a single mother who was too frustrated with life to effectively parent. She is a wonderful woman, but she dropped the ball.
Children need to see compromise and that can only come from having two parents in the household. One parent ruling isn’t effective. Also, young girls need to learn how to relate to men in a positive, non-sexual way. A father can teach you that.
February 13th, 2009 at 6:55 pm
The family is the first government. U have LAW and LAW ENFORCEMENT.
One without the other renders both useless.
Mother is The Law!
Father is the Law Enforcer!
Removal of the Law Enforcer makes mothers laws sound like nagging & thereby optional instead of necessary.